I have never had the pleasure of shoppig for little boy clothes - my family seems to have skipped the "Y" chromosome alltogether and we have girls. As fun as this is for me, I think Matthew is going to appreciate this more than me. No ribbons, tutus, plastic slippers, barettes, skirts, tights, princess dresses, or refusing to wear any color other than pink. :o)
I picked up Elliott's first outfit today while Madeline and I went shopping during Charlotte's preschool morning. Of course I gravitated toward an outfit that Matthew would appreciate most - one that looks just like his! I set them together and surprised him with this when he came home from work today.
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
The waiting game
Yesterday Madeline and I made a trip to the local post office with "the" stack of paperwork - six months of hard work - and mailed it to AGCI in Portland. Tiffany will look it all over, make sure all of our i's are dotted and our t's are crossed, then send it in for translation and authentication at the Chinese consulate in Chicago. From there it goes to China. And we wait for China to look at it and approve it, and send us our official acceptance letter. I've been told that this could take anywhere beween one month and three months from the time they receive it. And then there's this, that, and the other that we have to file with both the USA and China after we receive that approval letter. Our hopes for travel in June are gone; the earliest possibility would be late July, but most likely it would be August or September. I'd be lying if I said that pushing that timeline back didn't break my heart. Traveling during the summer would be so perfect with Matt having the summer off from his teaching job, and we would have such fun together as a family of five getting to know (and attach to!) each other with Lake Michigan nearby and a farm full of fun things to do right at home.
I rest easy in knowing that my work at this point is done, but the "Type A" that lives inside me is screaming at the loss of control at this point in the process. Today I pray that there will be no hang-ups, no delays, and that Elliott is safe and happy today.
I rest easy in knowing that my work at this point is done, but the "Type A" that lives inside me is screaming at the loss of control at this point in the process. Today I pray that there will be no hang-ups, no delays, and that Elliott is safe and happy today.
Tuesday, March 15, 2011
One step closer!
..... although sometimes it feels like we're crawling!
We received our I-797 approval in the mail today! It is the last piece of paper we are chasing down and we are now ready to group all of the paperwork together and send it in. Tomorrow I will make a visit to the post office and send our HUGE stack of paperwork to our adoption agency in Oregon. They will verify that all of the pieces are in place, and then forward it all to the Chinese consulate in Chicago, Illinois. They will look through it, verify it and then it all goes as a group to China, where it will be reviewed and approved over the next couple of months. After I visit the post office tomorrow, we wait. And waiting is going to be the hardest part!
We received our I-797 approval in the mail today! It is the last piece of paper we are chasing down and we are now ready to group all of the paperwork together and send it in. Tomorrow I will make a visit to the post office and send our HUGE stack of paperwork to our adoption agency in Oregon. They will verify that all of the pieces are in place, and then forward it all to the Chinese consulate in Chicago, Illinois. They will look through it, verify it and then it all goes as a group to China, where it will be reviewed and approved over the next couple of months. After I visit the post office tomorrow, we wait. And waiting is going to be the hardest part!
Friday, March 4, 2011
Madeline's "Little Brother" announcement
Matthew had asked Madeline to draw a Beresford family photo to bring with him to work (he teaches pre-K) to add to his students' drawings of their families. This is what she came up with. It makes my heart so happy!
Saturday, February 26, 2011
Becoming a family of FIVE!
It is with a joyful and excited heart that we announce WE HAVE FOUND OUR FOREVER SON!
On February 16th we received a call from Kate, our adoption coordinator. She had found a little boy on the special needs database that she thinks would be a great match for our family. It was with cautious anticipation that we opened up the email and took a look at the photos and the health information for Ha XinRong. I hate to say it was love at first sight, but it was pretty close. So much about this little boy was different, and although we were scared of having our hearts broken again, we were so hopeful that this little boy would be our son. We arranged for a physician review of his medical records the next day, which was February 17th. This was also the day that Ha XinRong was turning two years old. After a lengthy conversation with Dr. Jenista, we decided that we were very comfortable with his special needs, and called Kate immediately to tell her that we woudl love to bring Ha XinRong into our family. On his second birthday, Ha XinRong found his forever family, and we found our son!
I'm not at liberty to publicly post his photo until the adoption is finalized, but if you ask I will proudly show you his photo. He's absolutely adorable!
Matthew and I talked for quite a while about his American name. Both of us feel that maintaining his Chinese identity is very important, but to begin a life as a Chinese American we think an American name with a Chinese middle name would be good. The name Elliott was appealing for us, because it has a good nickname: Li. With help from my very good friend, Yen-Shi, we picked this name carefully. "Li" is Chinese for "strong" or "powerful" which is what we want for our little man. We are keeping his first name, XinRong, as his middle name. Xin means "new" and "Rong" means "harmonious". So our son will be Elliott XinRong Beresford.
Elliott is from an orphanage in Harbin, China. Harbin is in the northeastern part of China, at almost the same lattitude as Michigan. Today the high temperature is five degrees farenheit. It's colder in Harbin than it is in Michigan. Harbin is known for hosting a huge snow and ice festival each February. There are thousands of photos online if you do a google search. The creations are VERY impressive! Harbin, because it is so close to Russia, has a lot of Russian architecture and influence. I can't wait to see it in person!
We are very close to submitting our Chinese dossier. We hope to have all of the required paperwork assembled by the second week of March. Then we send it to the Chinese consulate in Chicago, where it is authenticated and passed on to China. It takes China approximately three months to process and review and approve our paperwork. We hope to travel in June to get Elliott and bring him HOME!
June can't come soon enough......
On February 16th we received a call from Kate, our adoption coordinator. She had found a little boy on the special needs database that she thinks would be a great match for our family. It was with cautious anticipation that we opened up the email and took a look at the photos and the health information for Ha XinRong. I hate to say it was love at first sight, but it was pretty close. So much about this little boy was different, and although we were scared of having our hearts broken again, we were so hopeful that this little boy would be our son. We arranged for a physician review of his medical records the next day, which was February 17th. This was also the day that Ha XinRong was turning two years old. After a lengthy conversation with Dr. Jenista, we decided that we were very comfortable with his special needs, and called Kate immediately to tell her that we woudl love to bring Ha XinRong into our family. On his second birthday, Ha XinRong found his forever family, and we found our son!
I'm not at liberty to publicly post his photo until the adoption is finalized, but if you ask I will proudly show you his photo. He's absolutely adorable!
Matthew and I talked for quite a while about his American name. Both of us feel that maintaining his Chinese identity is very important, but to begin a life as a Chinese American we think an American name with a Chinese middle name would be good. The name Elliott was appealing for us, because it has a good nickname: Li. With help from my very good friend, Yen-Shi, we picked this name carefully. "Li" is Chinese for "strong" or "powerful" which is what we want for our little man. We are keeping his first name, XinRong, as his middle name. Xin means "new" and "Rong" means "harmonious". So our son will be Elliott XinRong Beresford.
Elliott is from an orphanage in Harbin, China. Harbin is in the northeastern part of China, at almost the same lattitude as Michigan. Today the high temperature is five degrees farenheit. It's colder in Harbin than it is in Michigan. Harbin is known for hosting a huge snow and ice festival each February. There are thousands of photos online if you do a google search. The creations are VERY impressive! Harbin, because it is so close to Russia, has a lot of Russian architecture and influence. I can't wait to see it in person!
We are very close to submitting our Chinese dossier. We hope to have all of the required paperwork assembled by the second week of March. Then we send it to the Chinese consulate in Chicago, where it is authenticated and passed on to China. It takes China approximately three months to process and review and approve our paperwork. We hope to travel in June to get Elliott and bring him HOME!
June can't come soon enough......
Sunday, February 6, 2011
Safaris, fine dining, and long airplane rides..... Oh, my!
February 6, 2011
Getting up at 05:00 was really rough, but I was so excited about going on a real African safari that I was ready to go in about 25 minutes. The elevation in Nairobi is significantly higher than Ndalani and yatta, so it was much cooler this morning. I actually broke out a sweatshirt. The safari vans picked us up at 06:00 and, in two separate vans, our group headed over the Nairobi National Park (NNP). The roof on the van pops up so we were able to stand up straight and view the serenghetti without a window pane. On our way to the NNP, we drove past a bad accident. A man was laying in the middle of the road, half undressed with a couple of Nairobi medics trying to care for him as traffic carefully drove around and continued on it's way. By the look of the accident, he was driving in our same direction but for one reason or another lost control and flipped his vehicle in the ditch separating the lanes of traffic going east and west. The car was trashed.
Once we arrived at the NNP it didn't take us long to find the animals. Our van had five people: Kayley, Anita, Karli, Marijo and myself. We had plenty of room to manuver around for the perfect snapshots. My camera was still acting funny and making an odd sound in between photos, and I was just praying that I'd get some good photos out of this. Who knows if and when I'll ever get to go on safari ever again? We saw water buffalo, herds of zebras, giraffes, ostrich, gazelles, warthogs, colorful birds, impalas, babboons, elots, and a huge black rhinosaraus. It was totally surreal. One of the moments that will stand out in my mind is how close we got to a live, wild African lion! We were about 20 yards away, and he was watching us with laser-like intensity. He was totally unimpressed and just watched us with curiosity, but his stare was icy cold. I was in awe. There was a car that pulled up behind us and started overheating, so the driver got out to pop his hood and look at it not knowing that there was a lion just beyond the tall patch of grass. My heart was in my throat as we shouted at him to "GET BACK IN THE CAR!!!". By the time the lion stood up, he had dove back into his car. Oooooh... close! Just an hour later, when we were trying to zoom in on a black rhino behind a tree, a car full of (stupid) men pulled up and GOT OUT and started walking toward the rhino to get a better photograph. Again, we were screaming for them to get back in the car and they were so pissed off that we were yelling at them that they actually came up to our driver and started picking a fight with him. They are soooo lucky that the rhino decided to run away. With 30 yards between them and their vehicle, there was no way that if the rhino decided to charge after them that they would have survived the attack. Some people are so unbelievably dumb!
The weird part about the location of the NNP is that it borders Nairobi. If you look out in one direction, you can see the serenghetti go on forever and ever. Turn around a hundred and eighty degrees and you can see buildings and condos. Angela was telling us that a couple of times a year one of the carniverous cats wanders onto the campus of Nairobi University. They actually have a "lion on campus" drill where everyone runs into the first available building. That just blows my mind. We drove around the NNP all morning, then when our safari tour ended our driver took us to a Masai tribal gift shop. It was small little shop with lots of handmade bracelets, masks (those frighten me), wood-carved animals, and other souveniers. No doubt that the driver had some sort of contract or agreement with these guys. It was all severely overpriced. After that place, we went to Kazuri, a small shop that employs over 200 women to make handmade jewelry to sell around the world, and I bought a pretty pair of earrings. By then we were really hungry. We went to the Karen Blixen coffee plantation restaurant. After doing some research, I found that Karen was a British citizen that moved to Nairobi with her family to run a large coffee plantation in the early 1900's. It was restored recently and converted into a REALLY nice restaraunt with quaint little tables set all throughout the restored home and around the lush green yard. Where just hours earlier we were hard pressed to find any white-skinned people in Nairobi, this place was filled with white ex-patriots from the USA and Europe. The food was AWESOME! They had a curry lunch buffet set up outside on a long linnen-lined table and I helped myself three times and sucked down two Coca -Colas. (Matt dislikes curry, so I had to get my fill!) It was a bargain at just $18.00 American. Yummy!!!
After all that excitement, we had a few hours of 'down time' at the hotel to relax before heading back to the airport. Jen and I sat outside and chatted for a while, then while she took a nap I went for a swim with Kayley. In a pool full of about 200 people, we were the only white folk and we stuck out like a sore thumb. It's so interesting to be the focus of all the curious stares, to be the foreigner. Mostly it's just the kids that stare. The pool felt great. It's SO hot outside! I'm so far removed from the Michigan winter happening at home that I just can't remember how cold snow feels. At 18:30 (6:30pm) our bus came to pick us up and take us and our baggage to the airport. One last ride across Nairobi. Charles followed us in his blue Isuzu and got caught in a cop-trap set up outside the aiport. The police here set up checkpoints to check tags and registration right in the middle of the road. They pull cars over randomly and try to find something 'illegal'. Charles got pulled over. In Kenya, the police officer does not issue the ticket on site, he escorts the offender to the police station. Charles was allowed to bring Phil and his bags up to the airport but was escorted away after bidding us "goodbye". (We later find out that his offense, having slightly expired license plate tags, was forgiven once the chief of police realized who Charles Mulli was. In a country the size of Texas, Charles is quite famous for his good works!)
One one hand, I can't wait to get home and throw my arms around my husband and kids, and sleep in my own bed. (You know, that spot on the left side that is the exact size and shape of ME? And my super-fluffy pillow!) But the other side of me knows that I am going to miss Kenya. A lot. As I write this, it is 04:21am Michigan time (12:21pm Kenya time) and we just flew over Scotland. the flight from Nairobi to Amsterdam was OKay, and I actually slept for 5 hours of the 8.5 hour flight. We flew over Africa in the darkness, overnight, so even though I finally scored a window seat I saw nothing but vast black darkness. We had a 2.5 hour layover in Amsterdam, and now we are on a flight from Amsterdam to Detroit. All I was able to see was a smidge of the lush green and rocky coastline of Scotland, and now it's just miles and miles of ocean. The morning sunrise took almost an hour, as we are flying through the longest day in history; we are taking the day with us as we travel west. Just six more hours until we land in the USA, a quick 90-minute layover in Detroit, and I am homebound to Grand Rapids again. I'm so excited to see my family!!!
This has been an amazing adventure, to say the very least. I hope that, by taking lots of photos and journaling a lot of my thoughts and feelings, that I can remember this forever. And I can't wait to share it with friends and family. I have grown so much on this trip - personally, professionally, and spiritually. I have been happy, devastated, disturbed, joyful, satisfied, frustrated, hopeful and sad and everything in between. I want to come back soon, and do it all over again, and hopefully bring Matt with me. I never want to forget the people here, the things we did here, or the lessons I have learned. But I also can't wait to get home....
Just 8 more hours.....
* 12 days
*16,000 miles traveled
*1,000 patients served
*One very tired but very satisfied woman!
Getting up at 05:00 was really rough, but I was so excited about going on a real African safari that I was ready to go in about 25 minutes. The elevation in Nairobi is significantly higher than Ndalani and yatta, so it was much cooler this morning. I actually broke out a sweatshirt. The safari vans picked us up at 06:00 and, in two separate vans, our group headed over the Nairobi National Park (NNP). The roof on the van pops up so we were able to stand up straight and view the serenghetti without a window pane. On our way to the NNP, we drove past a bad accident. A man was laying in the middle of the road, half undressed with a couple of Nairobi medics trying to care for him as traffic carefully drove around and continued on it's way. By the look of the accident, he was driving in our same direction but for one reason or another lost control and flipped his vehicle in the ditch separating the lanes of traffic going east and west. The car was trashed.
Once we arrived at the NNP it didn't take us long to find the animals. Our van had five people: Kayley, Anita, Karli, Marijo and myself. We had plenty of room to manuver around for the perfect snapshots. My camera was still acting funny and making an odd sound in between photos, and I was just praying that I'd get some good photos out of this. Who knows if and when I'll ever get to go on safari ever again? We saw water buffalo, herds of zebras, giraffes, ostrich, gazelles, warthogs, colorful birds, impalas, babboons, elots, and a huge black rhinosaraus. It was totally surreal. One of the moments that will stand out in my mind is how close we got to a live, wild African lion! We were about 20 yards away, and he was watching us with laser-like intensity. He was totally unimpressed and just watched us with curiosity, but his stare was icy cold. I was in awe. There was a car that pulled up behind us and started overheating, so the driver got out to pop his hood and look at it not knowing that there was a lion just beyond the tall patch of grass. My heart was in my throat as we shouted at him to "GET BACK IN THE CAR!!!". By the time the lion stood up, he had dove back into his car. Oooooh... close! Just an hour later, when we were trying to zoom in on a black rhino behind a tree, a car full of (stupid) men pulled up and GOT OUT and started walking toward the rhino to get a better photograph. Again, we were screaming for them to get back in the car and they were so pissed off that we were yelling at them that they actually came up to our driver and started picking a fight with him. They are soooo lucky that the rhino decided to run away. With 30 yards between them and their vehicle, there was no way that if the rhino decided to charge after them that they would have survived the attack. Some people are so unbelievably dumb!
The weird part about the location of the NNP is that it borders Nairobi. If you look out in one direction, you can see the serenghetti go on forever and ever. Turn around a hundred and eighty degrees and you can see buildings and condos. Angela was telling us that a couple of times a year one of the carniverous cats wanders onto the campus of Nairobi University. They actually have a "lion on campus" drill where everyone runs into the first available building. That just blows my mind. We drove around the NNP all morning, then when our safari tour ended our driver took us to a Masai tribal gift shop. It was small little shop with lots of handmade bracelets, masks (those frighten me), wood-carved animals, and other souveniers. No doubt that the driver had some sort of contract or agreement with these guys. It was all severely overpriced. After that place, we went to Kazuri, a small shop that employs over 200 women to make handmade jewelry to sell around the world, and I bought a pretty pair of earrings. By then we were really hungry. We went to the Karen Blixen coffee plantation restaurant. After doing some research, I found that Karen was a British citizen that moved to Nairobi with her family to run a large coffee plantation in the early 1900's. It was restored recently and converted into a REALLY nice restaraunt with quaint little tables set all throughout the restored home and around the lush green yard. Where just hours earlier we were hard pressed to find any white-skinned people in Nairobi, this place was filled with white ex-patriots from the USA and Europe. The food was AWESOME! They had a curry lunch buffet set up outside on a long linnen-lined table and I helped myself three times and sucked down two Coca -Colas. (Matt dislikes curry, so I had to get my fill!) It was a bargain at just $18.00 American. Yummy!!!
After all that excitement, we had a few hours of 'down time' at the hotel to relax before heading back to the airport. Jen and I sat outside and chatted for a while, then while she took a nap I went for a swim with Kayley. In a pool full of about 200 people, we were the only white folk and we stuck out like a sore thumb. It's so interesting to be the focus of all the curious stares, to be the foreigner. Mostly it's just the kids that stare. The pool felt great. It's SO hot outside! I'm so far removed from the Michigan winter happening at home that I just can't remember how cold snow feels. At 18:30 (6:30pm) our bus came to pick us up and take us and our baggage to the airport. One last ride across Nairobi. Charles followed us in his blue Isuzu and got caught in a cop-trap set up outside the aiport. The police here set up checkpoints to check tags and registration right in the middle of the road. They pull cars over randomly and try to find something 'illegal'. Charles got pulled over. In Kenya, the police officer does not issue the ticket on site, he escorts the offender to the police station. Charles was allowed to bring Phil and his bags up to the airport but was escorted away after bidding us "goodbye". (We later find out that his offense, having slightly expired license plate tags, was forgiven once the chief of police realized who Charles Mulli was. In a country the size of Texas, Charles is quite famous for his good works!)
One one hand, I can't wait to get home and throw my arms around my husband and kids, and sleep in my own bed. (You know, that spot on the left side that is the exact size and shape of ME? And my super-fluffy pillow!) But the other side of me knows that I am going to miss Kenya. A lot. As I write this, it is 04:21am Michigan time (12:21pm Kenya time) and we just flew over Scotland. the flight from Nairobi to Amsterdam was OKay, and I actually slept for 5 hours of the 8.5 hour flight. We flew over Africa in the darkness, overnight, so even though I finally scored a window seat I saw nothing but vast black darkness. We had a 2.5 hour layover in Amsterdam, and now we are on a flight from Amsterdam to Detroit. All I was able to see was a smidge of the lush green and rocky coastline of Scotland, and now it's just miles and miles of ocean. The morning sunrise took almost an hour, as we are flying through the longest day in history; we are taking the day with us as we travel west. Just six more hours until we land in the USA, a quick 90-minute layover in Detroit, and I am homebound to Grand Rapids again. I'm so excited to see my family!!!
This has been an amazing adventure, to say the very least. I hope that, by taking lots of photos and journaling a lot of my thoughts and feelings, that I can remember this forever. And I can't wait to share it with friends and family. I have grown so much on this trip - personally, professionally, and spiritually. I have been happy, devastated, disturbed, joyful, satisfied, frustrated, hopeful and sad and everything in between. I want to come back soon, and do it all over again, and hopefully bring Matt with me. I never want to forget the people here, the things we did here, or the lessons I have learned. But I also can't wait to get home....
Just 8 more hours.....
* 12 days
*16,000 miles traveled
*1,000 patients served
*One very tired but very satisfied woman!
Saturday, February 5, 2011
The adventure continues.....
We woke up at 06:00 and were eating breakfast at 06:30 in preparation for an early morning mountain climb up Mt. Mulli. Normally, I would protest with all of my wit and charm to NOT get up so early on my day off, but I was really quite eager to go. We filled up our water bottles and hit the trail through MCF and off the property. We passed through a half dozen settlements on our way, mud-brick and stick huts like we had seen yesterday. Some were fortunate enough to have doors and sheet metal roofs, and a few owned livestock (cattle, goats and/or chickens). Much like MCF, they graze the goats and cows during the day in the bush, and either pen them up (stick and rope construction) at night or tie them by their back legs to a sturdy tree or bush (which makes me visibly cringe when I see it). Every house had at least one scraggly little guard dog, and there were a few that I thought might come after us. They were all skinny, with protruding ribs and hips. Not like the well-nourished dogs at MCF, which we also had represented in the group (Blue came with us). I'm happy to report that nobody was bitten.
Our climb up Mt. Mulli took about an hour up and an hour down. Half of the trek was foot trails and the other half, the upper half, was blazing our own path. At a few points we had to climb up rock with our fingernails and tiptoes. I have never climbed like that before, and throroughly enjoyed the adventure. Angela, Rama, Lydia, Celestine, Timothy and David came with us as our guides. They hardly even broke a sweat, while the rest of us plodded along. :o)
The view from the top was phenominal. It was way past "amazing". We were high enough, and it was a clear enough day to see Mt. Kenya which is the higest point in all of Kenya. It was so beautiful and peaceful way up there, but in the quiet we could faintly hear crowing chickens, braying donkeys, and at one point we heard some sort of tribal drum, beating slow and steady. I sat in the sun at the top and just basked in the vastness of it all, both of the climb and the whole week I just had. Experiencing the beauty of Africa has been a lifelong dream for me and it was surreal just to be there. At the top of a mountain in the middle of Kenya with friends. I had to laugh when Angela got a call on her cell phone while we were taking photos at the top. Seriously... I lose calls when driving down 84th Street near my home in Alto, and she can get calls way up here??? LOL.
The trip down the mountain was just as long and exhausing as it was going up. My calves burned a little afterward, but it felt great to get some good exercise. Once back at MCF, we showered, packed, and had one last meal there: arrow root, chipati bread, ugali, and sukuma wiki. I'm looking forward to more of a food variety in Nairobi. I hate to sound like a pretty pretty princess, but if I eat green beans one more time this week I might start turning green myself. I hugged Julia goodbye (the young woman from Germany here to teach for half a year) and thanked Esther again for her wonderful hospitality and for inviting us into her home here at MCF. She thanked us for coming, and let us knwo how much she and the children and the community enjoyed and appreciated our services. I said goodbye to my friends who life at MCF with a sad heart. I'm never good at goodbyes. I hate them. As much as I am really looking forward to scooping my kids up at the airport, and hugging them like crazy, I have really come to love it here. I love the people here. As our bus pulled away kids ran up and waved goodbye to us, including the precious little girl that I fell in love with earlier that week. (If Kenya and USA had an adoption treaty, I would for sure be doing everything I could to bring that precious little sweetheart home with me.) She was tall and slender, much like Madeline in size and stature. She found me first when we visited the children's classroom mid-week for evening devotions. She climbed right into my lap and snuggled with me. I never did get to learn her name because few of the younger children know English yet. That surely didn't slow down their curiosity with us. She snuggled with me, and stroked my hair just like Charlotte does. She was so quiet and sweet and sharing that moment was special. She found me the next day and ran up to me with open arms. Having to say 'goodbye' to her (in Swahili: Kwaheri) was hard. I hugged her and then had to set her down and walk up to the bus. I got all teary-eyed. If only I could bring her home with me. On one hand, I am so thankful that she has a home here. She will grow up with a large family of other orphans and a bunch of adults who love her and will provide her with food, a home, and education and she will grow up to know God. But on the other hand, none of that replaces having a Mom and a Dad.
Although I was exhausted from the early wake-up and the mountain climb, I didn't sleep during the three hour bus ride to Nairobi. I find everything too exotic and interesting to close my eyes. This was my last chance to absorb it all: the livestock being paraded down the road, the children walking home from school or tending to the livestock, the huts speckled in the near and the distant landscape, walking trails snaking through the dry, dead bush carved out like veins of the bare earth through the tough terrain connecting valleys and huts and rivers and roads. I saw women carrying packages on their heads (how do they DO that???) or babies on their backs using colorful scarves, saw clusters of homes made out of mud and/or sheet metal and make-shift shops lined up in long rows, fruit stands, men pushing two-wheeled carts loaded with itms to sell. I watch these things go by mile after mile. The land is flat with a randomly-placed mountain here and there. Much of the road is not paved, or paved well. It is narrow and chipped with billions of potholes that cause our driver to constantly speed up and slow down, sometimes to a crawling pace, to avoid wheel damage to the bus. The road has no lines and no cross streets for miles. We passed through Thika one last time. It's dirty. We finally came to Nairobi around 3:30pm. Nairobi is littered and dirty. It, too, is a city built on what I can only describe as randomness. The highway that brought us into Nairobi has a sign up explaining that the construction, for which we have been weaving into and out of, will be complete in 2030. Until then, traffic is routed onto new sections here and there, onto old sections for quite a bit, and even off the edge of both in some spots. Nairobi has almost no stop signs, and I only saw one street light and it was not even working. It's crowded and chaotic, but at this point I am getting used to it. I am even learning my way around a bit.
We finally make it to the hotel (same one we stayed at last week). We were planning a quick pit stop and then back on the bus to go see the Kiberi slum, then dinner and a little shopping. Due to time constraints and an extended driving time because of the construction, we decided that going into the slum at sunset was not a safe thing to do. We took quick showers, climbed back onto the bus and drove to a lookout point over the slum. The road leading to that point was the worse I have seen here yet. I can't tell you why we didn't blow a tire, or worse. Bumpy, bumpy, bumpy! It took us like 10 minutes to go 1/4 mile. People were walking by us at the same speed we were driving. Angela told us that people in the slum who have jobs get up and start walking as early as 4 or 5am, as there is no public transportation offered out there, nor could most of them afford it. We parked the bus at the overlook and my jaw just dropped. Spread out below us was the slum, a chaotic, crowded assembly of mud huts and sheet metal, clothing lines, small animals (dogs, chickens, goats) and small children. And it spread out all around me, from side to side like a big letter "C". Angela estimated that about 2 million people live here. By my vantage point, I'd gander to say that most of these were children. It looked like a scene from "Slumdog Millionare". Was I really standing here? Was this really happening? I was too far away to see faces, but could tell that many the children I was seeing down there were running around in tattered clothing and many had no shoes on. Angela and Tom explained that living in the slum is not free; slumlords charge an average of $12 a month for a 10 X 8 foot room, and often an entire family will live in one room. For that whole slum, there was no waste management. Garbage was everywhere and people used 'flying toilets' - you pee and poop in a bucket and fling it on the neighbor's roof when they aren't looking. There is no running water, and the huts that have electricity only have it for a few hours a day. Two of the MCF kids that were rescued from this slum came with us to Nairobi. "C" told us that it was just one year since he was plucked from this slum and brought to MCF and it was quite emotional for him to tell us about how bad his life down there was. His family was still down there, and he had not been back since he had joined MCF. It is a valley of disease and abuse and destruction. Probably the saddest part was learning that most of the slum owners are members of the Kenyan parliment. The slum exists because it makes money. How deepy sad. Police don't even go down there. The slum rules itself, and not many people graduate away from it. I was a bit relieved that we ran out of time to go walk down in and around it, though Angela said that during the day we would be fine. But I'm not sure my heart would.
Back down the ripped-up road, onto the main road again, and over to the NakuMatt shopping center again. I was able to get some new batteries for my camera (it ran out at the top of Mt. Mulli - I was horrified!) and we all sat down for dinner at Kava Mediterranean Restaurant. After eating small, light meals all week I pigged out, but my stomach had shrunk so I wasn't able to finish my normal "April-sized" portion. I felt a little guilty not finishing my meal after seeing what I had just seen.
My head is swimming as I lay here in bed, trying to process it all. I can hardly believe that tonight is my last night in Kenya. I am going to miss my roommate, Jennifer. She's so funny and I enjoy her company so much. :o)
Our climb up Mt. Mulli took about an hour up and an hour down. Half of the trek was foot trails and the other half, the upper half, was blazing our own path. At a few points we had to climb up rock with our fingernails and tiptoes. I have never climbed like that before, and throroughly enjoyed the adventure. Angela, Rama, Lydia, Celestine, Timothy and David came with us as our guides. They hardly even broke a sweat, while the rest of us plodded along. :o)
The view from the top was phenominal. It was way past "amazing". We were high enough, and it was a clear enough day to see Mt. Kenya which is the higest point in all of Kenya. It was so beautiful and peaceful way up there, but in the quiet we could faintly hear crowing chickens, braying donkeys, and at one point we heard some sort of tribal drum, beating slow and steady. I sat in the sun at the top and just basked in the vastness of it all, both of the climb and the whole week I just had. Experiencing the beauty of Africa has been a lifelong dream for me and it was surreal just to be there. At the top of a mountain in the middle of Kenya with friends. I had to laugh when Angela got a call on her cell phone while we were taking photos at the top. Seriously... I lose calls when driving down 84th Street near my home in Alto, and she can get calls way up here??? LOL.
The trip down the mountain was just as long and exhausing as it was going up. My calves burned a little afterward, but it felt great to get some good exercise. Once back at MCF, we showered, packed, and had one last meal there: arrow root, chipati bread, ugali, and sukuma wiki. I'm looking forward to more of a food variety in Nairobi. I hate to sound like a pretty pretty princess, but if I eat green beans one more time this week I might start turning green myself. I hugged Julia goodbye (the young woman from Germany here to teach for half a year) and thanked Esther again for her wonderful hospitality and for inviting us into her home here at MCF. She thanked us for coming, and let us knwo how much she and the children and the community enjoyed and appreciated our services. I said goodbye to my friends who life at MCF with a sad heart. I'm never good at goodbyes. I hate them. As much as I am really looking forward to scooping my kids up at the airport, and hugging them like crazy, I have really come to love it here. I love the people here. As our bus pulled away kids ran up and waved goodbye to us, including the precious little girl that I fell in love with earlier that week. (If Kenya and USA had an adoption treaty, I would for sure be doing everything I could to bring that precious little sweetheart home with me.) She was tall and slender, much like Madeline in size and stature. She found me first when we visited the children's classroom mid-week for evening devotions. She climbed right into my lap and snuggled with me. I never did get to learn her name because few of the younger children know English yet. That surely didn't slow down their curiosity with us. She snuggled with me, and stroked my hair just like Charlotte does. She was so quiet and sweet and sharing that moment was special. She found me the next day and ran up to me with open arms. Having to say 'goodbye' to her (in Swahili: Kwaheri) was hard. I hugged her and then had to set her down and walk up to the bus. I got all teary-eyed. If only I could bring her home with me. On one hand, I am so thankful that she has a home here. She will grow up with a large family of other orphans and a bunch of adults who love her and will provide her with food, a home, and education and she will grow up to know God. But on the other hand, none of that replaces having a Mom and a Dad.
Although I was exhausted from the early wake-up and the mountain climb, I didn't sleep during the three hour bus ride to Nairobi. I find everything too exotic and interesting to close my eyes. This was my last chance to absorb it all: the livestock being paraded down the road, the children walking home from school or tending to the livestock, the huts speckled in the near and the distant landscape, walking trails snaking through the dry, dead bush carved out like veins of the bare earth through the tough terrain connecting valleys and huts and rivers and roads. I saw women carrying packages on their heads (how do they DO that???) or babies on their backs using colorful scarves, saw clusters of homes made out of mud and/or sheet metal and make-shift shops lined up in long rows, fruit stands, men pushing two-wheeled carts loaded with itms to sell. I watch these things go by mile after mile. The land is flat with a randomly-placed mountain here and there. Much of the road is not paved, or paved well. It is narrow and chipped with billions of potholes that cause our driver to constantly speed up and slow down, sometimes to a crawling pace, to avoid wheel damage to the bus. The road has no lines and no cross streets for miles. We passed through Thika one last time. It's dirty. We finally came to Nairobi around 3:30pm. Nairobi is littered and dirty. It, too, is a city built on what I can only describe as randomness. The highway that brought us into Nairobi has a sign up explaining that the construction, for which we have been weaving into and out of, will be complete in 2030. Until then, traffic is routed onto new sections here and there, onto old sections for quite a bit, and even off the edge of both in some spots. Nairobi has almost no stop signs, and I only saw one street light and it was not even working. It's crowded and chaotic, but at this point I am getting used to it. I am even learning my way around a bit.
We finally make it to the hotel (same one we stayed at last week). We were planning a quick pit stop and then back on the bus to go see the Kiberi slum, then dinner and a little shopping. Due to time constraints and an extended driving time because of the construction, we decided that going into the slum at sunset was not a safe thing to do. We took quick showers, climbed back onto the bus and drove to a lookout point over the slum. The road leading to that point was the worse I have seen here yet. I can't tell you why we didn't blow a tire, or worse. Bumpy, bumpy, bumpy! It took us like 10 minutes to go 1/4 mile. People were walking by us at the same speed we were driving. Angela told us that people in the slum who have jobs get up and start walking as early as 4 or 5am, as there is no public transportation offered out there, nor could most of them afford it. We parked the bus at the overlook and my jaw just dropped. Spread out below us was the slum, a chaotic, crowded assembly of mud huts and sheet metal, clothing lines, small animals (dogs, chickens, goats) and small children. And it spread out all around me, from side to side like a big letter "C". Angela estimated that about 2 million people live here. By my vantage point, I'd gander to say that most of these were children. It looked like a scene from "Slumdog Millionare". Was I really standing here? Was this really happening? I was too far away to see faces, but could tell that many the children I was seeing down there were running around in tattered clothing and many had no shoes on. Angela and Tom explained that living in the slum is not free; slumlords charge an average of $12 a month for a 10 X 8 foot room, and often an entire family will live in one room. For that whole slum, there was no waste management. Garbage was everywhere and people used 'flying toilets' - you pee and poop in a bucket and fling it on the neighbor's roof when they aren't looking. There is no running water, and the huts that have electricity only have it for a few hours a day. Two of the MCF kids that were rescued from this slum came with us to Nairobi. "C" told us that it was just one year since he was plucked from this slum and brought to MCF and it was quite emotional for him to tell us about how bad his life down there was. His family was still down there, and he had not been back since he had joined MCF. It is a valley of disease and abuse and destruction. Probably the saddest part was learning that most of the slum owners are members of the Kenyan parliment. The slum exists because it makes money. How deepy sad. Police don't even go down there. The slum rules itself, and not many people graduate away from it. I was a bit relieved that we ran out of time to go walk down in and around it, though Angela said that during the day we would be fine. But I'm not sure my heart would.
Back down the ripped-up road, onto the main road again, and over to the NakuMatt shopping center again. I was able to get some new batteries for my camera (it ran out at the top of Mt. Mulli - I was horrified!) and we all sat down for dinner at Kava Mediterranean Restaurant. After eating small, light meals all week I pigged out, but my stomach had shrunk so I wasn't able to finish my normal "April-sized" portion. I felt a little guilty not finishing my meal after seeing what I had just seen.
My head is swimming as I lay here in bed, trying to process it all. I can hardly believe that tonight is my last night in Kenya. I am going to miss my roommate, Jennifer. She's so funny and I enjoy her company so much. :o)
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